Client Success Stories
Real Men Experiencing Successful Recovery
Justin
"Jake's program has transformed my life. Before I started this program, my life and marriage were in shambles. I had no clue how to control my addictions. I had beaten alcoholism, quit smoking but could never, on my own, kick porn and sexting. Jake helped me dig deeper into the "why" of my addictions. Before starting this program, I dealt with high anxiety and depression to go along with my addictions. Using Jake's methods, I have got myself to a much better spot in life. Jake's guidance has been above and beyond what I was expecting I'd get out of this. Having someone that has dealt with the same things as myself and can communicate with me more like a peer than someone who thinks they're better than you is a really big thing for me. I have always had a hard time sharing things, but Jake makes it very no pressure, just come as you are. Simply put, Jake and this program have changed my life and I can honestly say I wouldn't be where I am today without this.​"​
Victor
“After going through several therapists in the past two decades, this is by far the best experience I have had. The program is well structured and was designed to produce individual transformation. I can say with certainty that this curriculum is different from anything I've ever experienced. Jake is ready to listen and interested in what I have to say, there is no judgment, but a place of genuine empathy. He's also ready to teach from personal experience, heart-to-heart.”
Jacob
"Before I was with Jake, I felt like I tried everything to overcome but it seemed like no matter what I did, I could never get over it. Jake's program has taught me exactly what I need to overcome for good and have no desire (hence the name). I’m still working everyday and creating the lifestyle that Jake has taught me to be able to be sober long-term. But for now, I just feel so much happier and so much more free. I feel like I can manage my thoughts and feelings and truly control them. My relationships are better since being with Jake and his program. He is one of the nicest dudes you will ever meet. He never judges but always gives amazing advice at the right moments. I totally recommend him!!! You won’t regret it!"
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“When I first started meeting with Jake, I was in a dark place, feeling alone, betrayed, and unworthy. I didn’t think I deserved my family’s support. But as I continued our sessions, I began to see myself and my mistakes differently. With Jake’s guidance and tools, I managed to climb out of the hole I had dug for myself. He taught me strategies to develop new habits and thought patterns, helping me shift my perspective. Instead of dwelling on my flaws and mistakes, he showed me how to view them more positively. Having someone to talk to gave me the courage to share my addiction with my family and gain their support. Much of the happiness and fulfillment I experience now is thanks to Jake.”
Oliver
“Addicted to pornography and masturbation for close to 38 years, I have tried to stop multiple times. I looked at my support team - I had my wife, SA brothers, and a Sponsor, but something was missing. Then I heard one of Jake’s podcasts, and he spoke my language. Jake has helped me learn how to communicate with my wife, recognize and work on character defects, and forgive, accept, and love the different pieces of me. He also has a special talent for slipping little comments, suggestions, or advice towards the end of each one-on-one meeting; I’m calling them ‘Nuggets From Jake,’ and I look forward to them.”
Jeremy
Jake has given my recovery new life
- Marc
10 Quick Mental Techniques to Stop Porn Cravings
Fundamental Strategies for Porn Addiction Recovery
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Know how to beat porn cravings. Have 10 mental tools you can use at any moment.
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Prevent urges from hi-jacking your mind. Remain in the driver's seat and stay sober.
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​Get out of 'limbic thinking' (seek pleasure, avoid pain) and into 'prefrontal cortex thinking' (purpose, meaning, connection).
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Redirect your mind instead of fighting cravings. Learn how to break porn addiction by redirecting the mind when faced with unwanted thoughts.
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Turn triggering situations into growth experiences. Prevent escalation into slip/relapse.
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Reverse lust/fantasizing thoughts. Use thought-replacement strategies that rewire your brain & create new long-term habits.
"Having a porn addiction doesn't make you bad, immoral, or perverted. It just means you have some skills to discover. Practice them each day, and eventually porn addiction will be a distant memory."